The Deputy Governor of Oyo State, Alhaji Bayo Lawal, has urged widows not to succumb to depression but to remain steadfast in their faith and embrace life with optimism.
Barrister Lawal made this appeal on Wednesday at an empowerment programme organised by some Widows in the Ibadan North East Local Government Area of the state.
Represented by his wife, Mrs. Ajibola Lawal, the deputy governor emphasised the importance of faith and resilience in overcoming the challenges of widowhood.
He also encouraged widows to prioritise love and unity in their families, stressing that their children are their greatest assets.
“As a widow, it is important to stand firm in your faith, whether as a Christian or a Muslim, and remain prayerful.
“With God, all things are possible, and through Him, you and your children will experience His abundant blessings.
“Let love reign supreme between you and your children because they are your future and the greatest gift you have. Nurturing a strong bond with them will bring fulfilment and joy,” he added.
Lawal dismissed the notion that widowhood should lead to loneliness and despair, urging widows to see it as an opportunity to move forward with strength and purpose.
He encouraged widows to embrace happiness, maintain their appearance, and build positive relationships.
“Being a widow does not mean you should be depressed or lonely. Instead, see it as a challenge to move on with your life. It is a divine arrangement by God, and everyone has their own challenges.
“It is not wrong for a widow to be happy, look good always, and associate with the right people,” she stated. “Surround yourself with those who uplift you and continue to live a fulfilling and meaningful life”, he noted.
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